What is istikhara?
Istikhārah means asking Allah to guide you to the better of two choices and to make it easy. Jābir ibn ʿAbdullah (ra) said the Prophet ﷺ taught it as carefully as he taught them the Quran:
"The Prophet ﷺ used to teach us the way of doing Istikhara (Istikhara means to ask Allah to guide one to the right sort of action concerning any job or a deed), in all matters as he taught us the Suras of the Qur'an. He said, 'If anyone of you thinks of doing any job he should offer a two rak`at prayer other than the compulsory ones and say (after the prayer)…'"
Jābir ibn ʿAbdullah (ra) — Sahih al-Bukhari 1166
It fits alongside two other things the Sharīʿah asks of you when deciding: istishārah (consulting people of knowledge and experience — Quran 42:38, "their affairs are by mutual consultation") and tawakkul (trusting Allah once you resolve — Quran 3:159, "and when you have decided, then rely upon Allah"). Istikhara is the part where you ask Allah Himself.
How to pray it — step by step
Four simple steps, exactly as the hadith of Jābir lays them out.
How to pray istikhara in four steps: 1. First weigh your options and consult wise people, and choose the matter you lean toward. 2. Pray two rakahs of voluntary prayer (not an obligatory prayer). 3. After the prayer, raise your hands and recite the istikhara dua, naming your specific matter where the hadith indicates. 4. Then proceed with your decision, taking the means and trusting Allah; repeat if still unsure; do not wait for a dream.
Istikhara is not instead of thinking. Gather information, consult people of knowledge and experience (istishārah), and settle on the option you lean toward.
Pray two rakʿahs of voluntary prayer (not an obligatory prayer). Any time outside the prohibited times; there is no special sūrah required.
After the prayer, praise Allah, send ṣalāh upon the Prophet ﷺ, and say the duʿāʾ below — naming your specific matter at the point the hadith indicates.
Go ahead with your decision, taking the practical means, and trust Allah to steer you. If your heart is still unsettled, you may repeat the istikhara. You do not need to see a dream.
The full duʿāʾ of istikhara
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْتَخِيرُكَ بِعِلْمِكَ، وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ الْعَظِيمِ، فَإِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلَا أَقْدِرُ، وَتَعْلَمُ وَلَا أَعْلَمُ، وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُ الْغُيُوبِ. اللَّهُمَّ إِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ [يُسَمِّيهِ] خَيْرٌ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي، فَاقْدُرْهُ لِي وَيَسِّرْهُ لِي ثُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِيهِ، وَإِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ شَرٌّ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي، فَاصْرِفْهُ عَنِّي وَاصْرِفْنِي عَنْهُ، وَاقْدُرْ لِيَ الْخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كَانَ ثُمَّ رَضِّنِي بِهِ
"O Allah! I ask guidance from Your knowledge, And Power from Your Might and I ask for Your great blessings. You are capable and I am not. You know and I do not and You know the unseen. O Allah! If You know that this job is good for my religion and my subsistence and in my Hereafter--(or said: If it is better for my present and later needs)--Then You ordain it for me and make it easy for me to get, And then bless me in it, and if You know that this job is harmful to me In my religion and subsistence and in the Hereafter--(or said: If it is worse for my present and later needs)--Then keep it away from me and let me be away from it. And ordain for me whatever is good for me, And make me satisfied with it." The Prophet (ﷺ) added that then the person should name (mention) his need.
Jābir ibn ʿAbdullah (ra) — Sahih al-Bukhari 1166
At the words "this matter" (hādha-l-amr; "this job" in the translation above), you mention your actual decision — the marriage, the job, the journey, the purchase — either aloud or in your heart.
How to act on it — and a caution about dreams
The single most common misunderstanding is to expect a dream or a "sign." The hadith mentions neither. After the istikhara you simply proceed with your decision and rely on Allah — the duʿāʾ asks Him to facilitate the good and turn away the harm, which He does through the unfolding of events, opened and closed doors, and the settling (or unsettling) of the heart. If a way is made easy and blessed, that is the answer; if it is turned away, that too is the answer. There is no need to feel a dramatic change, and it is a mistake to be paralysed waiting for one.
فَإِذَا عَزَمْتَ فَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى ٱللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يُحِبُّ ٱلْمُتَوَكِّلِينَ
"…And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah. Indeed, Allah loves those who rely upon Him."
Quran 3:159 (Aal ʿImran)
Do
- Consult and weigh the matter first (istishārah)
- Pray two voluntary rakʿahs, then the duʿāʾ
- Name your specific decision in the duʿāʾ
- Proceed and take the means, trusting Allah
- Repeat the istikhara if you are still unsure
Avoid
- Waiting for a dream or a "sign" before acting
- Doing istikhara for something ḥarām or obligatory
- Asking someone else to "do istikhara for you"
- Following mere whims and calling it the answer
- Praying it during the prohibited prayer times
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to see a dream for istikhara to "work"?
No — this is the biggest myth about istikhara. The hadith says nothing about dreams. The answer comes through Allah facilitating the good and turning away the harm as events unfold, and through the heart being eased or held back. Simply proceed and trust; a dream is not required and should not be waited for.
When exactly should I pray it, and how many times?
Any time that isn't a prohibited prayer time, as soon as you face a real decision. You may repeat it — some of the salaf would repeat istikhara until the matter became clear and their heart settled. There is no fixed number.
Can I make istikhara for a decision I've already leaned toward?
Yes — that is exactly the point. You weigh and incline first, then ask Allah to confirm the good in it or turn you away if it is harmful. Istikhara is not meant to be done with a blank mind.
Can someone else pray istikhara on my behalf?
The Sunnah is that you pray it for your own matter — it is your turning to Allah about your own affair. You may of course ask others to make general duʿāʾ for you, but the istikhara prayer itself is done by the one seeking guidance.
Take the full guide with you
How to pray istikhara, the full duʿāʾ in Arabic and translation, and how to act on it — with the hadith cited, in one PDF.
- The four steps, clearly
- The full duʿāʾ, transliterated meaning
- The truth about dreams & "signs"
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Related: Duas & Dhikr · Sunnah & Night Prayers · Belief in Divine Decree.
