Sūrat At-Talaq 1–7 — A Way Out
Seven verses of family law that open on one man and switch to a crowd mid-sentence, tell him to count the waiting period himself, leave a divorced woman in a house the Arabic calls hers — then stop to say you do not know what happens next.
Before the seven verses
Sūrat aṭ-Ṭalāq is Madinan and twelve verses long. The early literature knows it as the shorter Sūrat an-Nisāʾ: al-Baqarah and an-Nisāʾ had legislated on divorce at length, and this goes back over the same ground in a fraction of the space. Verses 1–7 are the law — when to pronounce it, how long to count, where she lives, who pays. Then at verse 8 the sūrah stops talking about households and starts talking about towns that went past their Lord’s command, and it closes on seven heavens. One word, amr, does duty at both ends: the something Allah may bring about after a divorce, and what comes down between those heavens.
Listen to how the verses end: أَمْرًا · مَخْرَجًا · قَدْرًا · يُسْرًا · أَجْرًا · أُخْرَىٰ · يُسْرًا — seven landings on the same open -ā, and every one of them indefinite: a something with no name, a way out, a measure, an ease, a reward. The rules are definite; the endings are not. Three of the seven put a rule down and then hang whoever fears Allah on the end of it — a legal text interrupting itself to tell the man obeying it what will happen to him.
Several of these verses are the ground of live juristic disagreement. Where the jurists split, the split is reported here and left standing; anything you would act on belongs at the rulings section or the Q&A.
يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّبِىُّ إِذَا طَلَّقْتُمُ ٱلنِّسَآءَ فَطَلِّقُوهُنَّ لِعِدَّتِهِنَّ وَأَحْصُوا۟ ٱلْعِدَّةَ ۖ وَٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ رَبَّكُمْ ۖ لَا تُخْرِجُوهُنَّ مِنۢ بُيُوتِهِنَّ وَلَا يَخْرُجْنَ إِلَّآ أَن يَأْتِينَ بِفَـٰحِشَةٍۢ مُّبَيِّنَةٍۢ ۚ وَتِلْكَ حُدُودُ ٱللَّهِ ۚ وَمَن يَتَعَدَّ حُدُودَ ٱللَّهِ فَقَدْ ظَلَمَ نَفْسَهُۥ ۚ لَا تَدْرِى لَعَلَّ ٱللَّهَ يُحْدِثُ بَعْدَ ذَٰلِكَ أَمْرًۭا
Yā ayyuhā n-nabiyyu idhā ṭallaqtumu n-nisāʾa fa-ṭalliqūhunna li-ʿiddatihinna wa-aḥṣū l-ʿiddah
wa-ttaqū Llāha rabbakum · lā tukhrijūhunna min buyūtihinna wa-lā yakhrujna
illā an yaʾtīna bi-fāḥishatin mubayyinah · wa-tilka ḥudūdu Llāh
wa-man yataʿadda ḥudūda Llāhi fa-qad ẓalama nafsah
lā tadrī laʿalla Llāha yuḥdithu baʿda dhālika amrā
Prophet — when you men divorce women, divorce them for their counting-period, and count the period exactly; and fear Allah, your Lord. Do not put them out of their houses, and let them not go out, unless they commit a plain indecency. Those are Allah’s limits, and whoever oversteps Allah’s limits has wronged himself. You do not know — it may be that Allah will bring about, after that, something.
The address changes inside the first four words. Yā ayyuhā n-nabiyy is singular; the next verb, ṭallaqtum, is plural, and stays plural for six verses. Then the verse ends lā tadrī, singular again. Why it opens on him is disputed — the Prophet ﷺ addressed as head of the community, or an elision, Prophet, say to the believers…. The same vocative opens 66:1, and stays singular there.
Li-ʿiddatihinna is a preposition carrying a rule. Grammarians identified this lām as the one fixing a point in time, as in three nights gone of the month: divorce them at the moment from which counting can start. Which moment, the words do not say; the reported practice fills it in — a purity in which he has not approached her, so the tally begins clean.
Her houses, and a word left open. Min buyūtihinna — he pays for the place and the Arabic gives her the pronoun. The prohibition runs both ways: he may not put her out, she may not walk out. Then the exception, which is the disputed part. Recorded readings of fāḥishah mubayyinah include unlawful intercourse, foul conduct toward his household, and the leaving itself. The Qur’ān declines to narrow it, and the same exception stands at 4:19.
The verse ends by admitting ignorance. The rule is down, the penalty stated, and then: lā tadrī. Not you should not; you are not in a position to. Then laʿalla, and amran, a thing with no name. Commentators generally take it to be the wish to take her back, which would explain the housing rule — an inference from how the rules sit, not what the verse says.
وَٱلْمُطَلَّقَـٰتُ يَتَرَبَّصْنَ بِأَنفُسِهِنَّ ثَلَـٰثَةَ قُرُوٓءٍۢ ۚ وَلَا يَحِلُّ لَهُنَّ أَن يَكْتُمْنَ مَا خَلَقَ ٱللَّهُ فِىٓ أَرْحَامِهِنَّ إِن كُنَّ يُؤْمِنَّ بِٱللَّهِ وَٱلْيَوْمِ ٱلْـَٔاخِرِ ۚ وَبُعُولَتُهُنَّ أَحَقُّ بِرَدِّهِنَّ فِى ذَٰلِكَ إِنْ أَرَادُوٓا۟ إِصْلَـٰحًۭا ۚ وَلَهُنَّ مِثْلُ ٱلَّذِى عَلَيْهِنَّ بِٱلْمَعْرُوفِ ۚ وَلِلرِّجَالِ عَلَيْهِنَّ دَرَجَةٌۭ ۗ وَٱللَّهُ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٌ
Qur’an 2:228 — the count this sūrah never gives, and the naming of what 65:1 leaves unnamed: their husbands have more right to take them back, if they want to set things right.
فَإِذَا بَلَغْنَ أَجَلَهُنَّ فَأَمْسِكُوهُنَّ بِمَعْرُوفٍ أَوْ فَارِقُوهُنَّ بِمَعْرُوفٍۢ وَأَشْهِدُوا۟ ذَوَىْ عَدْلٍۢ مِّنكُمْ وَأَقِيمُوا۟ ٱلشَّهَـٰدَةَ لِلَّهِ ۚ ذَٰلِكُمْ يُوعَظُ بِهِۦ مَن كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِٱللَّهِ وَٱلْيَوْمِ ٱلْـَٔاخِرِ ۚ وَمَن يَتَّقِ ٱللَّهَ يَجْعَل لَّهُۥ مَخْرَجًۭا
Fa-idhā balaghna ajalahunna fa-amsikūhunna bi-maʿrūfin aw fāriqūhunna bi-maʿrūf
wa-ashhidū dhaway ʿadlin minkum wa-aqīmū sh-shahādata li-Llāh
dhālikum yūʿaẓu bihi man kāna yuʾminu bi-Llāhi wa-l-yawmi l-ākhir
wa-man yattaqi Llāha yajʿal lahu makhrajā
Then when they reach their term, keep them on decent terms or separate from them on decent terms; and have two upright men among you witness it, and stand the testimony up for Allah. That is what anyone who believes in Allah and the Last Day is being admonished with. And whoever fears Allah — He makes for him a way out.
“When they reach their term” means two different moments in two neighbouring verses. Balaghna ajalahunna stands at 2:231 before keep them or release them — sayable only while the period runs; and again at 2:232, the next verse, before do not prevent them from marrying — sayable only once it has expired. Here keeping is still on the table.
This verse says fāriqūhunna where Baqarah said sarriḥūhunna. Both mean end it. But س ر ح is the root of turning livestock loose to graze, releasing something from your hold, and ف ر ق is separation into two. Baqarah’s word watches his grip; this one watches the pair.
One clause is addressed past the husband. Aqīmū sh-shahādata li-Llāh is spoken to the two men he called in. What the witnessing attaches to is disputed — the pronouncement, the taking-back or the final separation — as is whether it is a condition of validity or strongly urged, the majority reading it as urged and a recorded position making it a condition. See the rulings section.
The way out is the same word as the eviction. Verse 1: lā tukhrijūhunna. Verse 2: makhrajan. He is forbidden to force an exit and promised one. And notice where this much-quoted sentence sits — on a man before two witnesses, deciding whether to be decent about ending his marriage.
وَيَرْزُقْهُ مِنْ حَيْثُ لَا يَحْتَسِبُ ۚ وَمَن يَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى ٱللَّهِ فَهُوَ حَسْبُهُۥٓ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ بَـٰلِغُ أَمْرِهِۦ ۚ قَدْ جَعَلَ ٱللَّهُ لِكُلِّ شَىْءٍۢ قَدْرًۭا
Wa-yarzuqhu min ḥaythu lā yaḥtasib · wa-man yatawakkal ʿalā Llāhi fa-huwa ḥasbuh
inna Llāha bālighu amrih · qad jaʿala Llāhu li-kulli shayʾin qadrā
— and provides for him from where he does not reckon on it. And whoever entrusts the matter to Allah, He is his sufficiency. Allah reaches what He has decided. Allah has set for everything a measure.
This verse begins mid-clause. Wa-yarzuqhu is still governed by verse 2’s condition — whoever fears Allah, He makes a way out for him and provides for him. Reciting it means carrying the grammar across the pause.
The sūrah has been counting since its first line, and here it stops counting. Verse 1: a tally, and count it exactly. Verse 3: provision comes min ḥaythu lā yaḥtasib, from where he does not have it on his books — then fa-huwa ḥasbuh, the One trusted is himself the man’s sufficiency, same root. At 65:8 the root faces the other way: towns that went past their Lord’s command get حِسَابًا شَدِيدًا, a severe reckoning.
Tawakkul is a legal word before it is a spiritual one. A wakīl is whom you appoint to act for you in a transaction you cannot handle yourself. Verse 2 put this man before witnesses; verse 3 tells him to appoint an agent for the part he cannot conclude.
The verse ends on a limit, not an abundance. The last thing said is that everything has a qadr, an amount. A measure was fixed, which is why a man can stop calculating: the arithmetic was never his. The same root returns in verse 7, for the man whose income was measured narrow.
وَٱلَّـٰٓـِٔى يَئِسْنَ مِنَ ٱلْمَحِيضِ مِن نِّسَآئِكُمْ إِنِ ٱرْتَبْتُمْ فَعِدَّتُهُنَّ ثَلَـٰثَةُ أَشْهُرٍۢ وَٱلَّـٰٓـِٔى لَمْ يَحِضْنَ ۚ وَأُو۟لَـٰتُ ٱلْأَحْمَالِ أَجَلُهُنَّ أَن يَضَعْنَ حَمْلَهُنَّ ۚ وَمَن يَتَّقِ ٱللَّهَ يَجْعَل لَّهُۥ مِنْ أَمْرِهِۦ يُسْرًۭا
Wa-l-lāʾī yaʾisna mina l-maḥīḍi min nisāʾikum ini rtabtum
fa-ʿiddatuhunna thalāthatu ashhurin wa-l-lāʾī lam yaḥiḍn
wa-ulātu l-aḥmāli ajaluhunna an yaḍaʿna ḥamlahunn
wa-man yattaqi Llāha yajʿal lahu min amrihi yusrā
And those of your women who have given up on menstruation — if you are in doubt — their period is three months; and those who have not menstruated. And those carrying: their term is that they lay down what they carry. And whoever fears Allah — He makes for him, out of his affair, ease.
Al-Baqarah gave the ordinary count; this verse gives the cases that break it. 2:228 says three qurūʾ — a word used both for the period and for the purity between periods, which is why the schools divided over what is counted and never converged. Here the Qur’ān turns to women for whom no qurūʾ can be counted, and switches to months. Months have no second meaning.
The ruling is wedged between the two groups it governs. Follow the order: those who have given up on menstruation — if you are in doubt — their period is three months — and those who have not menstruated. The second group arrives after the sentence that answers it. The doubt is read two ways, about her condition or about the ruling. And of “those who have not menstruated” the words say only that she has not; the commentators read it principally of those too young, and also discussed women whose periods stopped for another reason. Everything argued from the clause since is fiqh built on it.
The one waiting period with no number. Every other ʿiddah in the Qur’ān is a quantity. For a pregnant woman it is an event — that they lay down what they carry, a day away or eight months away. A widow waits four months and ten (2:234), so a pregnant widow falls under both counts at once — the disagreement this verse is famous for. The overwhelming position among the jurists is that delivery ends her waiting however the marriage ended; a minority, recorded from some of the earliest generation, held that she waits the longer of the two.
Ease out of the affair, not instead of it. Min amrihi yusrā — the min is partitive: the ease is drawn from the matter itself. Whose amr is open — the man’s, so the ease comes out of the business crushing him, or Allah’s. The Arabic permits both.
ذَٰلِكَ أَمْرُ ٱللَّهِ أَنزَلَهُۥٓ إِلَيْكُمْ ۚ وَمَن يَتَّقِ ٱللَّهَ يُكَفِّرْ عَنْهُ سَيِّـَٔاتِهِۦ وَيُعْظِمْ لَهُۥٓ أَجْرًا
Dhālika amru Llāhi anzalahu ilaykum
wa-man yattaqi Llāha yukaffir ʿanhu sayyiʾātihi wa-yuʿẓim lahu ajrā
That is Allah’s command; He sent it down to you. And whoever fears Allah — He covers over his bad deeds for him, and makes his reward great.
Rules about lodging and lactation are called amr Allāh and described as descending. Anzalahu ilaykum spends the verb of revelation on a set of domestic arrangements. Seven verses on, at 65:12, the same word amr is what comes down between seven heavens and seven earths. The sūrah is claiming one traffic, not two.
The wiping-away is offered to a man in the worst month of his life. Nothing here rewards an act of worship. The taqwā at stake is specific: not evicting her, counting honestly, getting witnesses, paying what is owed. To that the verse attaches erasure of sins and an enlarged reward. The erasure is worded almost as at 8:29, where the same covering of bad deeds is promised the believers at large; here it is spent on one man ending a marriage without cheating anyone. And yukaffir does not say the deeds are undone; it says they are covered.
أَسْكِنُوهُنَّ مِنْ حَيْثُ سَكَنتُم مِّن وُجْدِكُمْ وَلَا تُضَآرُّوهُنَّ لِتُضَيِّقُوا۟ عَلَيْهِنَّ ۚ وَإِن كُنَّ أُو۟لَـٰتِ حَمْلٍۢ فَأَنفِقُوا۟ عَلَيْهِنَّ حَتَّىٰ يَضَعْنَ حَمْلَهُنَّ ۚ فَإِنْ أَرْضَعْنَ لَكُمْ فَـَٔاتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ ۖ وَأْتَمِرُوا۟ بَيْنَكُم بِمَعْرُوفٍۢ ۖ وَإِن تَعَاسَرْتُمْ فَسَتُرْضِعُ لَهُۥٓ أُخْرَىٰ
Askinūhunna min ḥaythu sakantum min wujdikum wa-lā tuḍārrūhunna li-tuḍayyiqū ʿalayhinn
wa-in kunna ulāti ḥamlin fa-anfiqū ʿalayhinna ḥattā yaḍaʿna ḥamlahunn
fa-in arḍaʿna lakum fa-ātūhunna ujūrahunn · wa-ʾtamirū baynakum bi-maʿrūf
wa-in taʿāsartum fa-saturḍiʿu lahu ukhrā
House them where you are living, out of what you have; and do not harm them in order to make the place narrow for them. If they are carrying, spend on them until they lay down what they carry. And if they nurse for you, give them their wages — and take counsel among yourselves, decently. And if you make it hard on each other, another woman will nurse for him.
The standard is where you live. Not a room, not a fair provision: min ḥaythu sakantum. Then at once min wujdikum, out of your means, which stops the first clause becoming a demand he cannot meet. Two limits in six words.
The prohibited harm is spatial. Lā tuḍārrūhunna li-tuḍayyiqū ʿalayhinn — do not harm them in order to narrow things on them. In a verse about lodging, the named cruelty is squeezing. Verse 1 forbade putting her out; this forbids the version that never has to say so. Al-Baqarah uses the same root at 2:231 for the mirror-image trick — lā tumsikūhunna ḍirāran, holding on in order to hurt. Both exits are shut.
“If they nurse for you” — and the wage is not charity. The child is hers as much as his, and the Arabic still frames the nursing as work performed lakum and paid with ujūr, the same root as the ajr Allah enlarges a verse earlier. Then wa-ʾtamirū baynakum bi-maʿrūf: consult one another, with no arbitrator named. The long version is 2:233.
And if that fails, the verse does not scold. Wa-in taʿāsartum fa-saturḍiʿu lahu ukhrā — another woman will nurse for him. Flat future tense, and Form VI makes the difficulty mutual: if you make it hard on each other, not if she refuses or he is stingy. The mother who could not agree terms loses the wage and the feeding of her own child; the child is fed; nobody is told they were wrong.
لِيُنفِقْ ذُو سَعَةٍۢ مِّن سَعَتِهِۦ ۖ وَمَن قُدِرَ عَلَيْهِ رِزْقُهُۥ فَلْيُنفِقْ مِمَّآ ءَاتَىٰهُ ٱللَّهُ ۚ لَا يُكَلِّفُ ٱللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا مَآ ءَاتَىٰهَا ۚ سَيَجْعَلُ ٱللَّهُ بَعْدَ عُسْرٍۢ يُسْرًۭا
Li-yunfiq dhū saʿatin min saʿatih · wa-man qudira ʿalayhi rizquhu fa-l-yunfiq mimmā ātāhu Llāh
lā yukallifu Llāhu nafsan illā mā ātāhā · sa-yajʿalu Llāhu baʿda ʿusrin yusrā
Let a man of room spend out of his room; and whoever’s provision has been measured tight on him, let him spend from what Allah has given him. Allah does not put on any soul more than what He has given it. Allah will make, after a hardship, an ease.
The poor man is described in the passive, and the standard is not al-Baqarah’s. Man qudira ʿalayhi rizquh — whose provision was measured tight upon him; he did not fail to earn, an amount was set, in the root of verse 3’s last word. Then 2:286 says illā wusʿahā — beyond its capacity, what it could manage if it stretched. This verse says illā mā ātāhā — beyond what He has given it. Capacity is what you might raise; what He has given is what is in your hand. For a man told to maintain a woman who is no longer his wife, the Qur’ān took the narrower measure.
The last word of the legislation is yusrā. Sa-yajʿalu — the sa- is future, a promise rather than a description. And it says baʿda, after; Sūrat ash-Sharḥ says maʿa, with. Not the same claim, and both are in the muṣḥaf. This one is given to a man just told what he owes and shown no way to pay it.
فَإِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا إِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًۭا
Qur’an 94:5-6 — the other statement about ʿusr and yusr, with maʿa where this verse has baʿda.
The thread through the seven
Read straight through, the passage keeps doing one thing: it lays a rule down, then says something the rule cannot contain.
- Divorce where counting can start; count exactly — then: you do not know what may come.
- Keep her or part decently, before witnesses — then: a way out.
- (the sentence carries over) — provision from outside his accounts; a measure already set.
- Months where cycles cannot be counted; delivery for the pregnant — then: ease.
- This is Allah’s command, sent down — then: sins covered, reward enlarged.
- House her, do not squeeze her, pay her, talk it over — and if you cannot, someone else will nurse the child.
- Rich man from his room, poor man from what is in his hand — then: after hardship, ease.
About half of this is procedure; the rest is what happens to the man who follows it. And the counting runs the whole way, then turns over: count her period exactly, and stop counting on your own arithmetic for where the money comes from.
Carrying it
- Do the counting yourself. Aḥṣū l-ʿiddah is said to the man.
- Leave her in the house. Both ways out are shut: putting her out, and making the place small enough that she goes.
- Get two people who will tell the truth. The verse turns aside to tell them whose testimony it is.
- Do not decide what Allah will do next. Lā tadrī, and what may be brought about is left without a name.
- Pay from what is in your hand. Mā ātāhu Llāh — and nothing is asked past it.
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